Take it with kindness! ?

I used to think things negatively. I used to get mad in every situation, thinking only its dark side. I even used to nag about things, easily angered at anyone on actions they do which I don’t like, and ended up upsetting myself for reasons I don’t totally understand or that things dont always go as planned.

Well, that maybe because what we always wanted is to get things up working perfectly fine. If its a situation or an event, it must be pleasing, easy to deal with and manageable. If its a person whom we want to deal with everyday? Well lets should say, we’re wishing maybe that they should act nice and pretty kind. Amazing isn’t it?

I tried to understand, that we would always want to avoid negativity, even if we ourselves are acting negatively already. And that is very true.

But, what I had have realized is that all these things happened for a reason. Reasons which seemed to be so complicated to comprehend at first, always give us headache for thinking too much because we want to fix it right away, and sometimes make us cry over night since we have no idea why certain thing happened that way.

Honestly, its kind of tough that I used to give in easily on the idea of I not being enough, or I being so dumb, so dramatic and helpless, and often times I ended up frustrated. But hey, those are just my roller coaster emotions during unpleasant times. Those are temporary.

What isn’t temporary is the precious time we had had lost during this time of despair, frustration, difficulty, and long sadness. We are too clingy on the negative emotions and on the negative sides that we tend to forget what’s ahead of us. It made us missed every seconds of opportunity to being happy. It pinned us to anxiety which also lead us to bitterness. It has taken away our chance to be grateful about life and every bits of blessings from God. Most of all, it has taken away us.

So instead of dwelling to negativity, try to look at the brighter side. Take every moment of kindness as life it self gives you thousands of amazing greatness at your very eyes. ???